WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WERE NOT AFRAID?
What would you do if you weren’t afraid? Have you ever really asked yourself if your life would be the same today if you hadn’t been afraid to do such. And such a thing, to make such and such a decision? Yu be in the same place, in the same place, would you be doing the same job? Still be an employee or already a boss? Would you still be in a relationship with this same person or not? Finally live the dream that is deeply anchored inside of you? In short, would your life be the same if you weren’t afraid? You will need a life or executive coach to make your personality better.
But when we talk about fear, what are we talking about, what are our biggest fears in life? Have you ever tried to answer this question? Yes? So, you probably know that the 2 greatest fears of man are not “death”. And “loneliness” but “the fear of not being up to it”. And “the fear of not being loved » Does that speak to you? I find it really “Fascinating” because I realized that these 2 fears. Have always been an integral part of my life! As much to make big decisions as to make simple choices. These 2 fears have always been present and it is sometimes. What made me give up things that really mattered to me.
Take, for example. A time in your life when you had to change something, either changing cities. Changing schools, changing jobs, or even changing partners… and try to remember how these 2 fears naturally invaded. Your mind because to succeed in changing. You had to get out of your comfort zone and go into the unknown. And at that moment, the first questions that come into our head. Whether consciously or unconsciously: Will I be up to it. And will people like me?
If the answers to these questions are “negative” there will automatically be resistance to change. And it is precisely this point “THERE” that prevents us from flourishing and being free! “What would you do if you weren’t afraid”. It’s such a positive and powerful question. I think we’ve all asked ourselves it unconsciously at least once in our lives! What is interesting, is to know why we are asking this question? Well, we ask ourselves this because we need to feel alive. And even if there are 1001 ways to be, it’s vital to feel alive to be fulfilled.
It will probably seem improbable or even incredible to you. But to feel alive, you must create uncertainty. Get out of your “comfort zone” and go into the unknown. So, you are going to tell me what makes that despite the difficulties. The obstacles, or the failures. Some people live their own lives and manage to overcome their “Fears” while others give up before even having started…
What’s the reason? Well, we realize that people who manage to overcome their “fears” are not necessarily SUPER-HEROES! But on the other hand, they all have “ONE” point in common. Which is that they had the will and the strength to take JUST the “First step”. This “First step” makes all the difference, because when it is taken. You realize that you are capable of taking the things. And it is at this precise moment that something is released in your mind. There is a click that occurs and you enter into a positive spiral. Like executive coaching, you require to hire one.
For example the “Fear of the void”, I can guarantee you that a person who really has a “Fear of the void” and who takes the plunge of throwing himself into the void even if only once, will not have never again the same “Fear” for the simple and good reason that she will have had the click that she is able to do it and that she is able to overcome her fear. because when it is crossed, you realize that you can do things, and it is at this precise moment that something is unblocked in your mind, there is a click that occurs, and you enter a spiral positive.
I can guarantee you that a person who really has a “Fear of the void” and who takes the plunge of throwing himself into the void even if only once, will not have never again the same “Fear” for the simple and good reason that she will have had the click that she is able to do it and that she is able to overcome her fear. because when it is crossed, you realize that you can do things, and it is at this precise moment that something is unblocked in your mind, there is a click that occurs, and you enter a spiral positive.
Example the “Fear of the void”, I can guarantee you that a person who really has a “Fear of the void” and who takes the plunge of throwing himself into the void even if only once, will not have never again the same “Fear” for the simple and good reason that she will have had the click that she is able to do it and that she is able to overcome her fear.
Want to know what would you be capable of if you weren’t afraid? So, take a test, every day for a week. Ask yourself this question: If I weren’t afraid and had no limits. Would I be doing what I’m about to do? do today? If the answer is “NO” throughout the test period. Ask yourself if you are really in the right place and above all how your life would. Be different if you were not afraid to take on this new challenge. What would I do if I were not afraid?
This question, I will ask myself it all my life, with each new decision. With each new experience, with each new meeting, with each new challenge and each time I fall. Because there is nothing more powerful than fear to overcome us. And give us this wonderful feeling of being terribly alive! Starting today, listen to your instincts, but above all trust them. Really do them, and watch how the course of your life will change! Does it work? It’s up to you to tell me then “Test it”, “Test it” because theory is good. But practice is much better!